Where your nervous system exhales, your truth leads, and your life, love and wealth finally match the woman you actually are.
Welcome to Intimacy by Design™ — the home for high-achieving women ready to stop performing and start living, loving, and leading from alignment, embodiment, and sovereignty.
Meet CiCi
I’m Carmen “CiCi” Seda.
Soulful Executive. Somatic guide. BG5 business strategist. Creator of Intimacy by Design™ and The Phoenix Blueprint.
Soulful Executive. Somatic guide. BG5 business strategist. Creator of Intimacy by Design™ and The Phoenix Blueprint.
I work with high-achieving women, visionaries and leaders who look “successful” on the outside but feel quietly disconnected on the inside.
Together, we stop the performance.
We bring your nervous system, your relationships, your work and your wealth back into alignment with your design.
We bring your nervous system, your relationships, your work and your wealth back into alignment with your design.
My work weaves:
- Human Design and BG5 Career Design
- Gene Keys and timing
- Somatic and nervous system wisdom
- Intimacy, leadership and wealth energetics
This is not about fixing you.
It is about remembering you… and building a life that finally reflects the truth.
It is about remembering you… and building a life that finally reflects the truth.
You’re Not Broken. You’re Misaligned.
You have held it all together.
You built the career. You carried the family. You played the role.
You built the career. You carried the family. You played the role.
And still, underneath the polished success, there is a quiet ache:
- You are burned out from proving.
- You are craving connection that actually nourishes.
- You are tired of stabilizing everyone but yourself.
- You are longing for a life, a love and a level of wealth that feel like yours.
This is a soul correction.
This is the moment you stop performing and start living by design.
What Is Intimacy by Design™?
Intimacy by Design™ is the framework that sits beneath everything I do.
It is the art and science of how your body and energy process:
- love and attraction
- pressure and performance
- truth and boundaries
- work, leadership and wealth
Rooted in Human Design, BG5 Career Analysis, Gene Keys, somatic therapy and energetic recalibration, this work helps you:
- break free from emotional performance cycles
- heal overgiving, burnout and self-abandonment
- reclaim your voice, your desires and your nervous system
Intimacy by Design™ is not about who you attract.
It is about how you return to yourself in every room you walk into.
It is about how you return to yourself in every room you walk into.
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YOUR PATH BEGINS HERE
Choose the pathway that matches the season you’re in:
1. The Phoenix Blueprint
Signature Group Mentorship — 12–16 Weeks
A deep reinvention journey for women ready to rebuild their identity, intimacy patterns, leadership, and wealth from pure alignment.
Your sovereign next chapter begins here.
2. Rise Unbroken
6-Week Foundational Reset
For the woman emerging from burnout, heartbreak, transition, or emotional exhaustion — this is your energetic and emotional reset before your next evolution.
3. Her ICON Era
Local Atlanta Community & Live Events
Curated dinners, intimate gatherings, and soulful conversation spaces for high-achieving women seeking depth, connection, and feminine leadership.
Your Journey Starts Here
Start with your Intimacy by Design Analysis—a personalized reading of how your body and energy process love, pressure, boundaries, and decision-making.
This is your map to:
- Break the cycle of toxic patterns
- Reconnect with your somatic truth
- Learn how to lead and love in your own energy
ABOUT ME
I'm CiCi
Carmen Seda—CiCi—is the visionary behind Intimacy by Design™, a sacred space for high-achieving souls ready to alchemize burnout, emotional patterning, and performance into embodied truth. Blending Human Design, BG5, somatic wisdom, and energetic healing, she guides men and women into deeper sovereignty, soul-aligned leadership, and relationships rooted in resonance—not performance. This is where your healing meets your rising.
WORK WITH ME
Intimacy by Design™ Partnership Composite Analysis
Whether it’s romantic, professional, or creative—every relationship has an energetic blueprint. The Intimacy by Design™ Partnership Composite is a soul-deep analysis of how two people energetically interact, attract, and trigger one another. Using the Human Design Connection Chart, BG5 synthesis, and somatic imprinting patterns, we uncover how love, conflict, communication, and chemistry are shaped by your shared design. This isn’t compatibility—it’s clarity.
For couples, collaborators, and conscious connections ready to grow, heal, or let go—on purpose.
When you know your design, you stop apologizing for your power.
~CiCi Seda
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✨ Follow the Journey
For embodied wisdom, love decoded, and leadership aligned with your truth—
follow @cicibydesign on Instagram and Illuminations by CiCi on TikTok & YouTube.
For embodied wisdom, love decoded, and leadership aligned with your truth—
follow @cicibydesign on Instagram and Illuminations by CiCi on TikTok & YouTube.
This is where intimacy meets power… by design.
