The Night the Universe Spoke—and Why I Listened
I knew the night I met him that I was going to marry him.
Not because I believed in “love at first sight”—I didn’t then, and I don’t now. It was something deeper. A cellular knowing. An inner soul-speak that told me: this person will hold a chapter of your life.
Not because I believed in “love at first sight”—I didn’t then, and I don’t now. It was something deeper. A cellular knowing. An inner soul-speak that told me: this person will hold a chapter of your life.
I was only 17.
He wasn’t “my type.” But life, in all its divine orchestration, has a way of rerouting us through unexpected detours. A friend’s interest in his friend. A napkin with a number. A drive around the Bronx. And a pair of light eyes in the rearview mirror that turned my world on its axis.
It wasn’t butterflies. It wasn’t physical chemistry. It wasn’t even emotional excitement.
It was alignment.
It was alignment.
That kind of recognition doesn’t come from the mind. It’s not logical. It’s not earned through time or familiarity. It’s soul recognition. And it changes you.
What I now understand, after almost 30 years of living, loving, unraveling, and healing—is that moment was a Divine Appointment. The kind that doesn’t exist to deliver a fairytale. But to remind you of who you are, who you’ve been, and who you’re becoming.
It took years to realize that the reason I “knew” wasn’t about him being the one.
It was about me waking up to myself.
It was about me waking up to myself.
I had met someone who activated something long dormant. Not just attraction—but identity. Not just desire—but destiny. It was my soul saying, “Here. Remember this. Now go live.”
The Design of Intimacy
When I now do Intimacy by Design readings for men & women navigating love, breakups, marriage, dating, or divorce—I see this same thread show up in their charts.
The threads of:
- Soul-level connection (not just chemistry)
- Relational mechanics (how you’re designed to bond, open, close, trust)
- Emotional timing (when to leap, when to pause)
- Intimacy shadows (patterns of sabotage, avoidance, or overgiving)
That 17-year-old version of me didn’t have this language. But she had the blueprint.
The whisper of a Public Role coming online. The unfolding of Empowerment Strengths in action. The beginning of a Builder’s Response to life.
The whisper of a Public Role coming online. The unfolding of Empowerment Strengths in action. The beginning of a Builder’s Response to life.
She didn’t yet know her Assimilation Style, her Decision-Making Strategy, or her Relationship Thematics. But she was living them in real time.
And that’s the beauty of intimacy by design.
Why You Need an Intimacy by Design Analysis
Because your heartbreaks aren’t failures.
They’re echoes of your soul’s original design trying to get your attention.
They’re echoes of your soul’s original design trying to get your attention.
Because love, when not aligned with your true nature, will either:
- Distract you from your path, or
- Crack you open to it.
And when you finally know the mechanics of how you’re meant to love, connect, and be seen—it changes everything.
Whether you’re:
- Healing from your own Divine Appointment
- Questioning a current relationship
- Ready to call in something (or someone) new
Your Intimacy by Design holds the answers.
Let me show you how.
Let’s help the 17-year-old you come home again—with reverence, with wisdom, and with design.
The Night the Universe Spoke—and Why I Listened
I knew the night I met him that I was going to marry him.
Not because I believed in “love at first sight”—I didn’t then, and I don’t now. It was something deeper. A cellular knowing. An inner soul-speak that told me: this person will hold a chapter of your life.
Not because I believed in “love at first sight”—I didn’t then, and I don’t now. It was something deeper. A cellular knowing. An inner soul-speak that told me: this person will hold a chapter of your life.
I was only 17.
He wasn’t “my type.” But life, in all its divine orchestration, has a way of rerouting us through unexpected detours. A friend’s interest in his friend. A napkin with a number. A drive around the Bronx. And a pair of light eyes in the rearview mirror that turned my world on its axis.
It wasn’t butterflies. It wasn’t physical chemistry. It wasn’t even emotional excitement.
It was alignment.
It was alignment.
That kind of recognition doesn’t come from the mind. It’s not logical. It’s not earned through time or familiarity. It’s soul recognition. And it changes you.
What I now understand, after almost 30 years of living, loving, unraveling, and healing—is that moment was a Divine Appointment. The kind that doesn’t exist to deliver a fairytale. But to remind you of who you are, who you’ve been, and who you’re becoming.
It took years to realize that the reason I “knew” wasn’t about him being the one.
It was about me waking up to myself.
It was about me waking up to myself.
I had met someone who activated something long dormant. Not just attraction—but identity. Not just desire—but destiny. It was my soul saying, “Here. Remember this. Now go live.”
The Design of Intimacy
When I now do Intimacy by Design readings for women navigating love, breakups, marriage, dating, or divorce—I see this same thread show up in their charts.
The threads of:
- Soul-level connection (not just chemistry)
- Relational mechanics (how you’re designed to bond, open, close, trust)
- Emotional timing (when to leap, when to pause)
- Intimacy shadows (patterns of sabotage, avoidance, or overgiving)
That 17-year-old version of me didn’t have this language. But she had the blueprint.
The whisper of a Public Role coming online. The unfolding of Empowerment Strengths in action. The beginning of a Builder’s Response to life.
The whisper of a Public Role coming online. The unfolding of Empowerment Strengths in action. The beginning of a Builder’s Response to life.
She didn’t yet know her Assimilation Style, her Decision-Making Strategy, or her Relationship Thematics. But she was living them in real time.
And that’s the beauty of intimacy by design.
Why You Need an Intimacy by Design Analysis
Because your heartbreaks aren’t failures.
They’re echoes of your soul’s original design trying to get your attention.
They’re echoes of your soul’s original design trying to get your attention.
Because love, when not aligned with your true nature, will either:
- Distract you from your path, or
- Crack you open to it.
And when you finally know the mechanics of how you’re meant to love, connect, and be seen—it changes everything.
Whether you’re:
- Healing from your own Divine Appointment
- Questioning a current relationship
- Ready to call in something (or someone) new
Your Intimacy by Design holds the answers.
Let me show you how.
👉 [Click here to book your personalized Intimacy by Design session] (insert your link)
Let’s help the 17-year-old you come home again—with reverence, with wisdom, and with design.
The Night the Universe Spoke—and Why I Listened
I knew the night I met him that I was going to marry him.
Not because I believed in “love at first sight”—I didn’t then, and I don’t now. It was something deeper. A cellular knowing. An inner soul-speak that told me: this person will hold a chapter of your life.
Not because I believed in “love at first sight”—I didn’t then, and I don’t now. It was something deeper. A cellular knowing. An inner soul-speak that told me: this person will hold a chapter of your life.
I was only 17.
He wasn’t “my type.” But life, in all its divine orchestration, has a way of rerouting us through unexpected detours. A friend’s interest in his friend. A napkin with a number. A drive around the Bronx. And a pair of light eyes in the rearview mirror that turned my world on its axis.
It wasn’t butterflies. It wasn’t physical chemistry. It wasn’t even emotional excitement.
It was alignment.
It was alignment.
That kind of recognition doesn’t come from the mind. It’s not logical. It’s not earned through time or familiarity. It’s soul recognition. And it changes you.
What I now understand, after almost 30 years of living, loving, unraveling, and healing—is that moment was a Divine Appointment. The kind that doesn’t exist to deliver a fairytale. But to remind you of who you are, who you’ve been, and who you’re becoming.
It took years to realize that the reason I “knew” wasn’t about him being the one.
It was about me waking up to myself.
It was about me waking up to myself.
I had met someone who activated something long dormant. Not just attraction—but identity. Not just desire—but destiny. It was my soul saying, “Here. Remember this. Now go live.”
The Design of Intimacy
When I now do Intimacy by Design readings for women navigating love, breakups, marriage, dating, or divorce—I see this same thread show up in their charts.
The threads of:
- Soul-level connection (not just chemistry)
- Relational mechanics (how you’re designed to bond, open, close, trust)
- Emotional timing (when to leap, when to pause)
- Intimacy shadows (patterns of sabotage, avoidance, or overgiving)
That 17-year-old version of me didn’t have this language. But she had the blueprint.
The whisper of a Public Role coming online. The unfolding of Empowerment Strengths in action. The beginning of a Builder’s Response to life.
The whisper of a Public Role coming online. The unfolding of Empowerment Strengths in action. The beginning of a Builder’s Response to life.
She didn’t yet know her Assimilation Style, her Decision-Making Strategy, or her Relationship Thematics. But she was living them in real time.
And that’s the beauty of intimacy by design.
Why You Need an Intimacy by Design Analysis
Because your heartbreaks aren’t failures.
They’re echoes of your soul’s original design trying to get your attention.
They’re echoes of your soul’s original design trying to get your attention.
Because love, when not aligned with your true nature, will either:
- Distract you from your path, or
- Crack you open to it.
And when you finally know the mechanics of how you’re meant to love, connect, and be seen—it changes everything.
Whether you’re:
- Healing from your own Divine Appointment
- Questioning a current relationship
- Ready to call in something (or someone) new
Your Intimacy by Design holds the answers.
Let me show you how.
👉 [Click here to book your personalized Intimacy by Design session] (insert your link)
Let’s help the 17-year-old you come home again—with reverence, with wisdom, and with design.
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